Managing Chores in Your Home
There are endless ideas and methods to prioritize and
maintain the chores in your home. The problem is fitting the method
to your personality so you actually USE the method and get the work
DONE.
I suggest that you write down on paper all the big
jobs that need to be done each week, and then spread these chores
over the week. Getting them done is another task....
- Put the chores in order of importance.
- Make a simple chart with the days of the week on top. If you
have to, buy a one. There are tons of them out there.
- Put your
daily tasks in order per day, including the days that you work
away from home.
- Make several copies of your blank weekly chart or use a write-on/erase
wall calendar. For some women, a week at a time makes everything
look less overwhelming than seeing a whole month in front of
you with tons of things to be done.
- See what works for you and if a task doesn't fit on one day,
put it on another day that might work better. It will take time
to work out a schedule. But if you DO schedule in your weekly
tasks like you also schedule your work days, doctors appointments
and so on, then you will find that you have more time to schedule
in FUN!
- There are chores that only need to be done every two weeks
or so. Those can be alternated every other week.
- A HUGE chart on the wall certainly helps many type B personality
woman, who is often flexible and thus easily sidetracked. I put
chores and appointments on my wall chart that I can see from
the kitchen.
- For the smaller weekly jobs, try setting a timer to 5 minutes
so that you know there is a clock to beat. This is helpful to
many people. In fact, we recently timed many of the family chores
to see how long they took. Most took 5 minutes or less, even
when our youngest child did them. It took 5 minutes to load the
dishwasher and literally under 2 minutes to take out the trash.
Unloading the dishwasher took about 6 minutes.
Here are some suggestions on prioritizing...
For example, the dreaded laundry is a big priority
because it overflows if you don't do it. That is a tough one. Laundry
issues are different with every family. If you know you have a lot
of laundry that needs to be done every day, then put up a load first
thing in themorning and get it to the dryer before you walk out the
door for work. When you get home, try to take it out of the dryer
before you do anything else. Then when you finally get to sit in
front of TV {yeah, right :::::chuckle:::::} or talk with your family,
you can fold at the same time. The point here is that you can spread
the laundry chores over the whole week, and also be doing many other
things while you fold laundry.
As another example, most of the time
in our house is spent in the kitchen doing school work, preparing
meals, eating meals,
or cleaning up after meals. If you don't keep the kitchen free
from dirty dishes, there could be residual smells or possibly ants.
(It's
ant season out here in California.) So kitchen chores are way up
there on our priority list.
Unfortunately I can't determine for YOU what is most
important. What I can tell you is that if you can put one cleaning
job on the chart at least every other day, it will help get those
undesireable tasks done with the least bit of anguish. To me, making
beds is NOT a major priority, although it makes me FEEL good to have
them made. What I consider a major priority is getting food in the
house!
Monday
I wouldn't put any chores on Monday if you are a type
B. At work there is usually much to be taken care of as you start
your new work week. I am married and have three children, so we delegate
tasks even though it gets brutally overwhelming at times for everyone.
That's when it's time for a short trip somewhere. Back to our topic...
Tuesday
Tuesday could be empty trash and load/wash dishes day.
If you have more than two people living in your home like we do,
then these two things become an everyday task.
Wednesday
Wednesday could be the day you vaccuum. Since dirt
does build up on the floors and carpets, this chore should probably
be done at least once a week. Now here again, it all depends on your
personalities and priorities. Sometimes we just don't have time for
it or it isn't a priority in the scheme of things.
Thursday
Thursday could be empty trash and load/wash dishes
again day.
Friday
Friday might be a clean bathrooms day. If you aren't
home most of the week, then cleaning the bathrooms every two weeks
might be fine. Or just do regular quickie wipe downs of the bathroom
during the week when you get out of the shower. If you have children
and are home most of the time, well, then you'll need to take this
into account. And that is all I have to say about THAT.
Saturday
Saturday could be grocery shopping day. Most people
have Saturdays off so you wouldn't need to rush. Ask your family
for some dinner ideas.
I pick three different meals for the week and usually
cook enough for 2 or 3 days. Sometimes I prepare chicken and vegetables
in advance and freeze them in bags. This way I can quickly throw
some fajitas together during the week.
Our lives are too filled with things to do. So now
it's up to YOU to decide how you are going to RUN those things and
not let them run YOU.
Some things I try to do often: Get up and take care
of ME in the morning, shower, dress, eat and pray... Get the
kitchen cleaned... Take charge of my day!
Copyright © 1999 Susie Glennan
Susie Glennan has been happily married since 1982, is mom to 3 teenagers,
and is a Home Maker, Nurturer, Teacher, Author, Professional Speaker,
Toastmaster, President of The Busy Woman, Inc., DBA - The Busy Woman's Daily
Planner®. She teaches time management seminars, offers FREE consultations
with your order, and will help you set up a schedule that's right for you.
800-848-7715 www.thebusywoman.com
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